Talking to Your Children About Divorce
The family law attorneys at Haas & Associates, P.A. are sensitive to the concerns and feelings of children. Children must be informed about what is happening when those events are going to change their lives. At the same time, they need to feel secure and loved. Here we provide some information to help children and their parents cope:
- What to Tell Your Children About Your Divorce - The lawyers of Haas & Associates, P.A. know that separation and divorce are extremely confusing and difficult times for both adults in the relationship. We also know that when parents are separating or divorcing, their pain and confusion is compounded by concerns about who, what, when, where and how to tell their children. That's why we are offering some advice on what to tell your children about your divorce.
Contact us at 919-783-9669 today to get help with the effects of divorce on children.
- What Kids Need to Know - As we serve families in Raleigh, Durham and surrounding areas in North Carolina, we see children who may need some reinforcement that the divorce is not their fault. In fact, we have talked to other lawyers, judges, parents, teachers, psychologists and kids to put together some things for children to remember as they go through this big change in their life.
- When You Get in Trouble at School - Almost all children whose parents are divorcing or divorced experience negative emotions such as anger, confusion, guilt or loss. The effects of divorce on children statistics and research show that the first year after the divorce is the hardest. These feelings can drive them to misbehave at school. Haas & Associates, P.A. gathered a list of things children can do if they get in trouble at school, reminding them to be polite and to ask for their parent or caretaker to be called. If children can stop and think about the effects of divorce on children and the family, they may realize that their actions are tied to unresolved feelings about the divorce.